The first day of my last period was April 25, 2017. According to my Glow app, my average period length is 6 days and it looks like there’s roughly 37 days between periods. That’s about 10 days longer than the average Jane. That last period occurred on our honey moon! We came back home on May 9. Then, I had a weeks worth of diarrhea from May 20-27 and ended up taking ciprofloxacin at that time. As June approached, I was just fatigued for a bit and so was Bear. We thought we had caught a bug or had some kind of weird travel lag from the trip. I was still surfing regularly with Ross — maybe a couple times a week. Around the summer solstice June 20, I had some light cramping. Breasts had been tender for a while, but that wasn’t anything out of the ordinary as my period approaches. In early June, we went to the Toast the Coast Wine Festival at the Del Mar Fair (June 10) and then the evening of June 20, we had burgers and beers at Encinitas Alehouse. I had a funny feeling to pee on a pregnancy stick that evening, so I did. Lo and behold it was POSITIVE! I quickly called out to Bear to make sure he got an eye on the reading to make sure I was reading it correctly. The next day, we went to the drug store and got one of those digital ones so there couldn’t be any reading errors. It said PREGNANT.
Once we found the info out, I immediately called to setup an appointment with my chosen OB/GYN. I feel lucky to have a job in anesthesia because I get to directly see the work of our surgeons and care providers so it gives me an idea of who to seek for my own care if needed. I setup an appointment with Kim Washkowiak for July 5 (1st ultrasound) and then an initial consultation on July 11. I also started researching best books to read during this time and finally chose the Mayo Clinic Guide to a Healthy Pregnancy.
According to the Mayo Clinic Guide to a Healthy Pregnancy that we’re reading, the chart states the following….
- Week 1 If the first day of your last menstrual period was: Apr 25
- Week 3 Conception likely occurred around: May 9
- Weeks 5-10 Period of greatest risk of birth defects
- Beginning of organ formation: May 30
- Major organs have formed: Jul 4
- Week 12 Risk of miscarriage decreases: Jul 18
- Week 23 Some preemies can now survive: Oct 4
- Week 40 (full term) Estimated due date: Jan 30
Mayo Clinic (2011-10-26). Mayo Clinic Guide to a Healthy Pregnancy (Bestsellers) (Kindle Locations 2230-2237). RosettaBooks. Kindle Edition.
But according to our OB and U/S reports, we’re due February 20, 2018.
July 5, 2017
I’ve had about 2 weeks of low grade nausea. I keep wanting to eat small meals to stave off the “morning sickness” that rears its ugly head throughout the day. I’ve got some ginger candies to help. I’m also eating more plant-based meals (Veestro and Splendid Spoon) and craving grapefruit and fruits! I haven’t worked out much bc of the nausea. I’m trying to get 3x 16oz waters down in a day. Initially, I was having to pee a lot…. not just during the day but it would also wake me up in the night.
Week 18 – Sept 19-25, 2017
Recap: The nausea was the worst for me from weeks 7-13. It slowly got better. Things I did to calm the nausea: ginger chews, ginger hot water/tea, bananas, toast, crackers, pasta, hydration, rest. I found it worst during the day. During that time, I also shunned Veestro and Splendid Spoon. In fact, I could hardly tolerate any of my paleo foods that I typically eat. Crackers and carbs were my savior.
Fast forward to week 18… life is good! We just got back from a 2 week vacation to the Azores. I’m back at work and now I have Mondays off. We’ve been doing research on state disability, maternity and paternity leave, vacation days for 2018, infant day cares, pediatricians, etc. I still don’t see much of a baby bump yet, but my usual clothes are starting to feel tighter.
So far, we’ve found the following books helpful:
- Mayo Clinic. Mayo Clinic Guide to a Healthy Pregnancy.
- The Expectant Father: The Ultimate Guide for Dads-to-Be
- The Healthy Pregnancy Book: Month by Month, Everything You Need to Know from America’s Baby Experts
- Pregnancy Day by Day (terrific book if you’re into pictures)
- The Informed Parent: A Science-Based Resource for Your Child’s First Four Years
Week 21: Oct 10 – 16, 2017
I’m still feeling pretty energetic and able to maintain my pilates workouts. Typically, I aim for 3-4 one hour sessions/week. The ladies at Club Pilates in Del Mar are fantastic and are always offering me alternatives for new moves as I advance in my pregnancy. I’m hoping to keep this up until delivery and beyond! We’e completed two prenatal classes so far. Scripps offers a lot of classes and resources and we’re taking advantage of the learning opportunities! So far, we’ve done Getting Ready for Baby part 1 and 2. It was a great overview for absolute essentials we may need for our newborn as well as how to change a diaper, swaddle, when/how to bathe, etc. It also included an excellent session given by a pediatrician on normal/abnormal poops, diaper changes, breastfeeding, circumcision, vaccines/shots, etc.
I’ve been in a rabbit hole of baby registry items/reviews and we’re slowly building our list. I’m pretty meticulous about researching anything prior to pulling a trigger on anything big (house, car, insurance, stocks, appliances, electronics, etc.). I consider a newborn to be a really BIG thing!
- Amazon items I’m considering — ongoing research, pros/cons, good reviews, word-of-mouth
- Our Amazon baby registry
- My YouTube Pregnancy playlist of helpful videos
- OB Anesthesia entries from my blog:
Week 22: Oct 17 – 23
This week, it was recommended that I only stick to the pilates 1.0 or 1.5 classes. 😦 Pilates has been great, but they’re totally right. My cardiovascular capacity needs to really stay in check. The mini is the size of a papaya this week.
Setting up a baby registry
Help and favors registry
* Doona: https://www.buybuybaby.com/store/product/doona-infant-car-seat-stroller-with-latch-base/3312663
* Bob Revolution Pro stroller (after baby is 6 months old): https://www.rei.com/product/100533/bob-revolution-pro-stroller
Baby Carriers/Backpacks: https://www.consumerreports.org/cro/backpack-carriers/buying-guide.htm
HelloBaby: Best breast pumps 2017
Medela Pump in Style advanced breast pump with on-the-go tote
Graco Blossom 4 in 1 system
Local Day Cares to check out:
* Bright Horizons: https://discover.brighthorizons.com/thank-you.php
* Early Childhood Development Center: https://discover.brighthorizons.com/thank-you.php
* KinderCare: http://www.kindercare.com/our-centers/san-diego/ca/301463
* Lifetime Montessori School: https://lifetimemontessorischool.com/toddler-program-1
* LePort Montessori School: https://www.yelp.com/biz/leport-montessori-school-solana-beach-del-mar
* La Jolla Forest School: https://www.yelp.com/biz/la-jolla-forest-school-san-diego
* Gluck Maxwell and Muriel Child Care Center: https://www.yelp.com/biz/gluck-maxwell-h-and-muriel-child-care-center-san-diego?osq=infant+and+baby+day+care
* The Kids Bay Learning Center: https://www.yelp.com/biz/the-kids-bay-learning-center-san-diego?osq=infant+and+baby+day+care
* Mary Lyakov, Licensed family child care: https://www.yelp.com/biz/lyakov-mary-licenced-family-child-care-san-diego?osq=infant+and+baby+day+care
* Del Mar Childcare: https://www.yelp.com/biz/del-mar-childcare-del-mar-2?osq=infant+and+baby+day+care
* The Goddard School: https://www.goddardschool.com/classrooms/infant